I'm having some difficulty getting expiring relationships to work. I know I need to provide

--enable-experimental-relationship-expiration

but I'm using the k8s SpiceDB Operator so I'm trying to pass

enableExperimentalRelationshipExpiration: true

under

spec.config

for the

SpiceDBCluster

but still getting

expiration trait is not allowed

, I'm on v1.43.0. I feel like there should be way to pass the CLI argument using a patch but I can't find it, any suggestions?